Our first stop driving west wasn’t a scenic overlook. It was a quiet cemetery outside Asheville.

I have no memory of my father, and I wasn’t sure why my journey needed to start here. I’ve been told my father was brilliant and handsome, but he led a tragic life. He died young (at 35) in 1978, and his grave had become overgrown with grass and weeds during the North Carolina summer.

My husband and I cleaned the marker and then left memorial stones we had collected from the Snoqualmie River a couple months ago.

I wasn’t sure what I had expected to feel. Maybe I had hoped to satisfy a lifelong curiosity. Maybe I was searching for a small connection I’d never had. If it was there, it stayed quiet.

Our next stop was the Oconaluftee Visitor Center in Great Smoky Mountains National Park. Along the trail, Queen Anne’s lace bloomed in quiet abundance. I don’t remember seeing this flower in Hawaii. Though it’s considered an invasive plant, its delicate white flowers made me feel, unexpectedly, like I was in the rolling hills of Maryland where I grew up.

It struck me that history isn’t always found in monuments or family stories. Sometimes it lingers in overlooked places—in an old grave, a river stone carried across the country, or a roadside weed.

Together, the two stops felt like the right beginning to my journey home.

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